Okay, what I am going to say is radical.

The truth is that half measures do not work with break up recovery.

You have two options:

The first one is to nurture her memory.

You can go to therapy and spend hours talking about the way she made you feel.

You can spend months trying to understand why she did it.

After a while, all your friends will run away.

They will use words like pathetic and loser when they talk about you.

The second option is to get your full power back.

A break up is a battle situation.

It is a crisis.

You have been invested in this girl or woman for months, maybe years.

After you break up, you keep on giving. You get back nothing.

Your whole mind set needs to shift and be repolarised to one single priority: you!

There is no soft approach here.

She is in your mind and it is killing you.

It is a self destructive spiral which annihilates your life.

Why? Because she is in your mind.

More! She has power over you.

You are not master of yourself anymore.

What you want is a new mind set.

The old mind set of the victim or loser is killing you.

You want to defend your life, your territory.

How to do that?

You radically shift the way you stand in it. Wake up your survival instinct and get over it.

When you are not over it, you are under it, right? Being under means carrying a useless weight which drains you and takes away your strength.

Why is that happening? You have no power. In fact, she does.

Here are some key mind sets you need to wake up in you. These are survival strategies. They are not optional. If you don't apply them, your are dead!

• You are not a victim, you are a winner. In fact this break up might be the best thing which ever happened to you. Put it this way: you are free!
• She is gone and gone forever. You won't get back together. In other terms don't hope she'll change her mind. If you meet her by coincidence, don't see this as a secret sign that you two are meant for each other!
• You don't need her. This is an illusion. You are perfectly fine with or without her.
• You will meet new girls or women. Right now, she does not deserve the attention your give her.
• Alcohol or drugs does not help. Getting drunk is the worst thing you can do. Drinking does not give you your power back. In fact it does exactly the opposite.
• You owe her nothing! A relationship is a temple with two pillars. If she takes off, consider yourself 100% free. Let it totally collapse. It's not your responsibility anymore.
• What she does is none of your business! You might believe you have rights? you don't! Simple as that. She does what she wants, when she wants, with whoever she wants. You have no control over that.
• Get real! There are many reasons she did what she did. Most of them have to do with fulfilling her own needs. Get real about who she is and what she wanted. Don't defend her.

Again, in a break up situation, you need to wake up your power and see this as a battle for survival. Soft approaches don't work! It is a waste of your precious time.

You have the power to force yourself into a new mind set. This new mind set gives you freedom, space and instant recovery. Sure, you won't get all the negative attention from friends and family (poor thing...).

The question is: what do you want?

This is about your own survival.

Do what it takes to express your full power.

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"Your product is very detailed. It hits the nail right on the head. What you mention in your e-book and MP3s is exactly what happens in real life..." Marvin - US

"Long story short: married 20 years then divorced. I descended to hell with thoughts of destroying what life I had left. Then I found your web site.

It should be law that every divorced man get a copy of your “How to get your power back” MP3. It was the slap in the face and kick to the balls that helped me see where I was and what I needed to do to get MY power back. It worked!!

God bless you Francisco." Robert - US

"I have made more progress with this e-book than any other thing I have done since my wife left me. Thanks for writing it" P - US

"Hi! I have recently purchased "How to get your power back after she breaks up" which is absolutely brilliant and has helped me a great deal. It really got me back on the right road again. Many thanks!" Stuart Bullingham - US

“Francisco, I needed to thank you for your e-book, and especially the audio files. I bought your package on "Getting your power back after breakups – For men” last Sunday. My girlfriend broke up last Saturday and I was searching for help the next day.

I listen to your audio files in the car going to work, at work, coming home from work, and while I am falling asleep!

Right now the hardest part for me is the "Need to call her" feeling. Your audio file on the "First Breakup Trap" is just awesome for when I feel this. I understand now, and it gives me strength knowing that she will see me as "Needy" and "Wanting".

You can't imagine how many times I play that segment over, and over again. I want her to see me having the power. I want her to think of me as confident and sure of who and what I am. That one audio file has been worth every penny I paid!!

Again, thank you so much for showing me what she is feeling during this time, and what really triggered this breakup.

I will admit, it is still hurts, but I am quickly getting my power back.

Thanks again, I will keep listening to your MP3’s and gaining back my strength and power. You have truly helped me regain my sanity!!”  Toby Cobb - US

“It works! I have read the book, listened to it and all of the MP3s all weekend. Great stuff! Some solid reality check. Best Regards” Rich - US

"Francisco, I have been listening to the mp3 files all day and I have to say that so far you have been a life saver.

I had been with my girlfriend for about 8 months and I love her very much, so when she broke up with me for space and other personal reasons, you can imagine my devastation. I did all of the things that I am know learning that I shouldn't have. Begging for her to try again, convincing her that we belong together, always appearing needy to her.

Now I am becoming armed with the tools that I need to beat this. It has been about 2 weeks since she broke up with me and it has been extremely difficult, but I found your book just in time.

I am already applying the strategies and I feel better about the whole thing. It is my hope that your book and mp3 files will help me along with this battle.

Anyway, thank you for the e-book. And I may be contacting you for some live sessions.

Thank you again" Greg Marx - US

"With the advice Francisco has offered, I've been able to regroup and keep myself from losing my cool and control. I was actually falling into the pitfalls he talks about in the beginning.

If anyone is going through a break up, or even if your relationship is rocky, you should seriously consider this e-book. Everything I've read thus far is RIGHT ON THE MONEY! Francisco has a very clear and concise way of telling you just exactly what you need to know.

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"Had I known what I know now (Thanks in part to Francisco) I would probably still be in this relationship, and it might even be healthy." Anonymous

"Francisco, First of all thank you for writing “How to get your power back after she breaks up”. Your e-book and information are helping me in a lot of ways in my life.

Like you mention in your e-book “this is a crisis” and I need to get my power back. I’m sure you get a lot of correspondence like this, but I wanted to quickly share my story. I think these events will make me a stronger and better person overall.

I promised myself to start 2006 with a new outlook and somehow I found your material online. Although I am not completely over my ex, your e-book has helped me on those nights where I just needed a little push to get to bed and fall asleep.

Thank you again for helping me get through the most difficult time of my life." MR - US

"Hello, Just really wanted to say thank you for your insights and advice in the e-book.

The break up I went through was the toughest thing I ever went through in my life and I am still trying to get all my power back. It will take time... But you truly helped me take the first steps in a new future for me.

It's funny because when I was listening to you on the mp3, it was almost like you recorded this around my situation." Rich - US

"Hi Francisco. Just wanted to say a BIG thank you to you. You're so right. I found out my wife was having an affair after 25 years of marriage, some 3 months ago. I got your e-book.

And you were so right, I am the winner! I was in a bad way but took your advice. Have now met someone myself (who knows if it will last) and now feel so much better about myself. I no longer feel ugly and useless. I feel free and good about myself, here' s to the future. Thank you again Francisco!" Peter Barlow

"Thank you so much for all of the help! Your book is incredible! you've done a great job!" Daniel

"I have recently purchased your e-book. It has helped me a lot understand what is happening to me" Peter B - US

"I love your book and want to win this battle. I would love to talk with you live." Anonymous

"I just ordered your e-book. I read it twice and have already been taking some steps and done a little dating." Charles - US

"Hi Francisco, I want to say that I just finished reading your e-book and I think it is one of the best books out there on this subject." M - US

"I've listened to your recordings and read the e-book on how to get your power back. I am finding it very helpful in my situation." Anthony Di Vittorio - US

"How to Get Your Power Back After She Breaks Up" by Francisco Bujan is an intelligent, compelling, commonsense guide for men who, as I was, are in that unhappy limbo when your girlfriend leaves you.

He explains what is going on in your mind while you are in this difficult phase and describes effective techniques to displace the pain and negativity with positive thoughts and energy.

Within days of reading his book, I was well on my way to recovery. Highly recommended!" GM – The Netherlands

"Hi, my name is Ray and your "Power Back" e-book has been very helpful to me!" Ray - US